{"id":256,"date":"2011-02-15T20:30:39","date_gmt":"2011-02-16T04:30:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/upstreamteens.wordpress.com\/2011\/02\/15\/discussion-friendship\/"},"modified":"2013-04-12T15:06:11","modified_gmt":"2013-04-12T22:06:11","slug":"discussion-friendship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/upstreamteens.org\/blog\/2011\/02\/discussion-friendship\/","title":{"rendered":"Discussion: Friendship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What do you look for in a good friend?<\/p>\n<p>What makes you a good friend to others?<\/p>\n<p>Have your personality flaws or attitude ever caused a fight or even brought about the end of a friendship?<\/p>\n<p>Have you ever betrayed or really hurt a friend?<\/p>\n<p>Has a friend ever betrayed or hurt you?<\/p>\n<p>What does it mean to be cautious with your relationships?<\/p>\n<p>What are some qualities that you would consider a &#8216;deal-breaker&#8217; in<br \/>\nfriendship? (for example, I can&#8217;t be close with someone who&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>Proverbs 12:26 (NIV)<br \/>\nA righteous man is cautious in friendship, but the way of the wicked<br \/>\nleads them astray.<\/p>\n<p>Why do you think God says it is wise to be cautious in friendship?<\/p>\n<p>*When you grow in friendship with someone, your trust grows. Their<br \/>\nopinion matters. Their input matters. Their thoughts and feelings<br \/>\nmatter. If you are not cautious about who you are allowing in, you may<br \/>\nbe setting yourself up for straying from your own goals, morals and<br \/>\nvalues. Good, healthy, strong friendships are honest, loving,<br \/>\nencouraging and even challenging. We should challenge one another, in<br \/>\ngentleness and love, to be better&#8230; to grow closer to God, farther<br \/>\nfrom sin and to be a man or woman of integrity.<\/p>\n<p>Evaluate your friendships. Are you being led astray? Are you leading<br \/>\nothers astray? It&#8217;s always the right time to put God first and follow<br \/>\nHis direction.<\/p>\n<p>-Karyn<\/p>\n<p>2011-02-15<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What do you look for in a good friend? What makes you a good friend to others? Have your personality flaws or attitude ever caused a fight or even brought about the end of a friendship? Have you ever betrayed or really hurt a friend? Has a friend ever betrayed or hurt you? 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