{"id":316,"date":"2007-01-09T12:38:00","date_gmt":"2007-01-09T20:38:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/upstreamteens.wordpress.com\/2007\/01\/09\/discussion-marriage"},"modified":"2017-05-02T22:14:52","modified_gmt":"2017-05-03T05:14:52","slug":"discussion-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/upstreamteens.org\/blog\/2007\/01\/discussion-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Discussion: Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Can I choose to marry someone, and be sinning against God in that?<\/p>\n<p>&quot; I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery.&quot;<br \/>The disciples said to him, &quot;If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.&quot;<br \/>Jesus replied, &quot;Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given.<br \/> For some are eunuchs because they were born that way; others were made that way by men; and others have renounced marriage&#176; because of the kingdom of heaven. 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Not for everyone, some choose permanent abstinence to focus on God&#039;s plan alone, not distracted by family responsibilities.<\/p>\n<p>What should I take care of before marriage?<\/p>\n<p>How does the world&#039;s ideas differ from God&#039;s approach to marriage?<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;Signature&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<br \/>..you can visit the UPstream website if you want to:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.upstreamteens.org\/\">http:\/\/www.upstreamteens.org\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Can I choose to marry someone, and be sinning against God in that? &quot; I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery.&quot;The disciples said to him, &quot;If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.&quot;Jesus replied, &quot;Not&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/upstreamteens.org\/blog\/2007\/01\/discussion-marriage\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Discussion: Marriage<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"episode_type":"","audio_file":"","podmotor_file_id":"","podmotor_episode_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","filesize_raw":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","itunes_episode_number":"","itunes_title":"","itunes_season_number":"","itunes_episode_type":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"series":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"episode_featured_image":false,"episode_player_image":"http:\/\/upstreamteens.org\/blog\/wp-content\/plugins\/seriously-simple-podcasting\/assets\/images\/no-album-art.png","download_link":"","player_link":"","audio_player":false,"episode_data":{"playerMode":"dark","subscribeUrls":{"apple_podcasts":{"key":"apple_podcasts","url":"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/the-voice\/id792284906","label":"Apple Podcasts","class":"apple_podcasts","icon":"apple-podcasts.png"},"stitcher":{"key":"stitcher","url":"","label":"Stitcher","class":"stitcher","icon":"stitcher.png"},"google_podcasts":{"key":"google_podcasts","url":"","label":"Google Podcasts","class":"google_podcasts","icon":"google-podcasts.png"},"spotify":{"key":"spotify","url":"","label":"Spotify","class":"spotify","icon":"spotify.png"}},"rssFeedUrl":"http:\/\/upstreamteens.org\/blog\/feed\/podcast\/the-voice","embedCode":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"etVrKhSR3u\"><a href=\"http:\/\/upstreamteens.org\/blog\/2007\/01\/discussion-marriage\/\">Discussion: Marriage<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"http:\/\/upstreamteens.org\/blog\/2007\/01\/discussion-marriage\/embed\/#?secret=etVrKhSR3u\" width=\"500\" height=\"350\" title=\"&#8220;Discussion: Marriage&#8221; &#8212; The Voice\" data-secret=\"etVrKhSR3u\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! 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