Discussion: Needs

  • What does it mean to be selfish?

adjective

(of a person, action, or motive) lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one’s own personal profit or pleasure.

  • What is vain conceit?

vain

vān/

adjective

1. 

having or showing an excessively high opinion of one’s appearance, abilities, or worth.

“their flattery made him vain”

synonyms: conceited, narcissistic, self-loving, in love with oneself, self-admiring, self-regarding, self-obsessed, egocentric, egotistic, egotistical; More

noun

Excessive pride in oneself. 

Philippians 2:3-4 NIV

[3] Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, [4] not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.

  • What are some reasons people are selfish, what motivates someone to think of themselves first?
  • What do you think this group would be like if everyone worked hard to meet everyone else’s needs? What would your classroom look like? Your home? Your school? The world??
  • If everyone put others’ needs before their own- how would our own needs be met? 

-Karyn