Can you think of a time you've done something wrong and felt defensive because of how you were being spoken to?
Do you think it is easier to admit fault when you feel like you will still be treated with respect and love?
Proverbs 15:1 "A gentle answer turns away wrath,
but a harsh word stirs up anger."
How does it feel to be spoken to harshly?
How do you speak to others?
When you speak harshly, do you get the results you want?
Sometimes we allow anger or frustration to compromise our self control. By responding with harshness, we may see immidiate results, but they don't last. I know that I have a hard time listening when I am yelled at or put down, and often lose respect for somebody who is being cutting.
1 Peter 3:15 "But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect,"
I love how God provides us with tips and guidelines for better communication.
Have you ever heard someone talking about their beliefs or religion in such a way that they were insulting those who didn't agree?
When you are being insulted, how inspired are you to see that person's point of view? I know I'm not.
Let's commit to speaking with gentleness and respect, even when we don't think it's deserved. The results may be surprising
"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law."
-Galations 5:22-23
2008/03/11